For property owners
Reach lifestyle couples and organisers — without giving up control
Between Us is a discreet European platform for couples exploring open and lifestyle dynamics. Property owners list a place once, and receive written enquiries from verified members and from event organisers looking for a venue.
Listing is free. We take no commission and no booking fee, because we do not handle bookings or guest payments at all. Every enquiry ends in your own inbox, on your terms, at your prices.
What you get
- A bilingual (English/German) listing with your lifestyle attributes — adults-only, discreet location, couples-only nights, single-men policy — so you attract the right guests instead of explaining yourself repeatedly.
- Two demand streams in one place: couples asking about a private stay, and organisers looking for a venue for an event.
- Structured enquiries with dates, group size and context, not anonymous one-line messages.
- A private reply thread inside the platform, so you can qualify a guest before sharing anything personal.
- Your exact address stays hidden until you choose to share it.
- A simple lead dashboard: views, enquiry starts, enquiries received, accepted and declined.
What we ask of you
- You are legally entitled to let the property and to host adult guests.
- Your description, photos and rules are accurate and current.
- You answer enquiries within a few days — an unanswered inbox is the fastest way to lose a listing's ranking value.
- You respect guest privacy: no guest names, photos or details shared outside the enquiry.
- You accept our consent and safety standards for anything hosted at your property.
How it works
1. Create your partner account
Sign up, then complete the property partner form with your company details and a contact person. It takes about ten minutes.
2. Submit your property for review
Add photos, capacity, facilities and lifestyle attributes in English and German. We review every property before it becomes visible.
3. Receive enquiries
Approved properties appear in search. Couples send stay enquiries; organisers send venue enquiries. You accept, decline or ask a question.
4. Close the deal your way
You agree dates, prices and house rules directly with the guest or organiser. We are not part of the contract and take no cut.
What we do not do (yet)
- No online booking, no availability calendar and no payment processing — enquiries only.
- No commission, no subscription and no paid placement, so no listing can buy a better position.
- No guaranteed volume. We are an early-stage platform in Germany, Austria and Switzerland first, and we would rather say that than promise numbers we cannot prove.
Straight answers
- What does it cost?
- Nothing. There is no listing fee, no subscription and no commission. We do not process guest payments, so there is nothing for us to deduct.
- Will my property be publicly labelled as a swinger venue?
- Only in the terms you choose. You select the lifestyle attributes that apply — adults-only, discreet location, couples-only, and so on — and you write your own description in both languages.
- Who sees my address?
- Nobody, until you release it. Public listings show region and approximate location. The exact address is shared by you, inside an enquiry, when you decide the enquiry is genuine.
- Who are the guests?
- Members with a completed profile and a verified email. Couples and single women and men who have accepted our consent and safety standards. You always decide whom you accept.
- Can I also host organiser events?
- Yes. Organisers can send you a venue enquiry for a party or speed-dating night. These are separate from couple stay enquiries and you can decline either kind.
- Can I remove my listing?
- At any time, from your partner workspace. You can also unpublish temporarily without deleting anything.
- How long does the review take?
- Usually a few working days. We check that the property is real, the operator is identifiable, and the content meets our standards. We tell you if something needs changing.
List your property
Create an account, submit your property, and we will review it. No fee, no commission, no exclusivity.
Questions before you apply? Write to us through the contact form — a person answers, not a bot. Contact