Editorial & community standards
How we hold the space
Between Us is built for cautious, mature couples. These standards describe how we speak, curate and moderate — before any private event is ever discussed.
Couple-first, always
The comfort and preferences of the couple set the pace. No individual choice, opinion or fantasy overrides a partner's clearly stated boundary. Curiosity is welcome; pressure is not.
No performance, no coercion, no humiliation
We do not publish explicit media, degrading language, or content that treats women or men as objects to be won, staged, or ranked. Hotwife and Stag–Vixen dynamics only work when everyone involved feels held, not evaluated.
Discreet by design
We do not publish attendee counts, fake activity, member showcases, or public applicant profiles. What happens between couples stays between couples.
Editorial voice
All public writing appears under the shared editorial identity Stag & Vixen from JOY. Individual authors are not named on the public website.
Moderation
Contributions that pressure, out, shame, or objectify others are removed. Requests that ignore the stated purpose of the interest list — e.g. treating it as a booking or an invitation — are also declined.
These standards are living text. They will be refined as the community grows.