Between Us
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Between Us · Open-minded adults 30+

A different kind of night out.

Meet people worth meeting. Decide what happens next.

Real-life introductions for open-minded couples and selected singles. Discreet Stays for time away, together.

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First evenings are being prepared. Applications and tickets via JOYclub once the event and JOY-Tickets are approved.

  • Couples-first
  • Adults 30+
  • Your own pace

Between Us · Founding phase

Something new is taking shape.

Between Us is in its founding phase. We're bringing together open-minded people, thoughtful organisers and welcoming places to create something different. Discover First Spark, host an evening at your venue, or apply to run your own Connections events as an independent organiser.

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Good company. A place to escape.

Two different invitations. Your own pace.

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01 / Connections

Less scrolling. More chemistry.

Short, structured conversations with people and couples, in person. A chance to feel a connection before deciding privately whether to continue.

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02 / Stays

Time away. On your terms.

We are building a selected network of properties with clearer privacy information and house rules. As listings become available, enquire directly with hosts.

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Between Us does not take bookings or payments. Arrangements are agreed directly with the property.

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Start with curiosity. Not a commitment.

First Spark is being prepared, initially in Germany. Here is how an evening works.

  1. Find it on JOYclub

    Once confirmed and approved for JOY-Tickets, each First Spark evening will be listed on JOYclub. Apply there; Between Us reviews your application.

  2. Meet at the hotel bar

    Once approved, buy your JOY-Ticket. Two hours, six short conversation rounds, a few surprises.

  3. Decide later

    Reconnect on JOYclub if you both want to. Nothing is shared without your own opt-in.

The moment is shared. The choice is yours.

The Connections format puts conversation before expectation.

In-person first

An impression made through conversation, not another profile grid.

Your own pace

Any question can be skipped. Flirting is welcome; physical contact always needs consent.

Opt-in only

JOYclub usernames are only shared between guests who both opted in. Couples share a joint profile only when both partners agree.

Discretion, without the mystery.

No public guest list. Attendance depends on approval. Your boundaries remain yours, and reporting and support stay available. Read how your information is handled before you apply.

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Set the scene with us.

For organisers and hospitality partners who value reputation, clear expectations and control.

Explore both partner paths

Host First Spark at your venue or apply to run your own Connections evenings as an independent organiser.

Property partners

Present your house rules. Keep control of enquiries.

Planning an event? Explore our optional event services.

Enquiry and individual quote only. Scope agreed in writing; no member signup needed to enquire.