Format · Waitlist open

Swingers Speed Dating in southern Germany

The hardest part of any lifestyle event is the first ten minutes. Speed dating removes them. Instead of scanning a room and hoping, you meet everyone briefly, in a structured way, and decide later in private.

Who can join

  • Couples of any configuration
  • Single women
  • Single men
  • Hotwives attending alone
  • Other approved solo participants where the format allows

The evening, end to end

  1. Waitlist

    You register interest. There is no date yet and no payment involved.

  2. Application

    Once enough compatible people have registered for a region, we open applications.

  3. Approval

    Places are confirmed and the guest mix is balanced.

  4. Check-in

    A quiet arrival, a name badge with the name you chose, and a private card.

  5. Short introductions

    Timed conversations with everyone attending. Long enough to get a feeling, short enough that nothing is awkward.

  6. Breaks

    Real breaks between rounds so you can talk to your partner or catch your breath.

  7. Optional social time

    Whoever wants to stay, stays. Whoever wants to leave, leaves. Both are normal.

  8. Private choices

    You submit your choices afterwards, privately.

  9. Mutual contact

    Only mutual matches exchange contact details. Nobody learns who did not choose them.

There is no date and no venue yet. We will announce both only when the participant mix is viable — a room with the wrong balance is worse than no room at all.

Join the waitlist